Come To Me

The calling of Superior Power

When things in your life appear hopeless, and difficult, when you feel you are going in the wrong direction and that this is not what you had planned for…summon a higher power and remind yourself that someone is always watching out for you.

When you find someone with a perfect life,
then come to me.

When you find someone with zero lies, 
then come to me.

When you find someone with no worries, 
then come to me.

When you find someone without any dreams, 
then come to me.

When you find someone with no fears, 
then come to me.

When you find that you have nobody to hear from, 
then come to me.

When you find someone without any guilt, 
then come to me.

When you find someone with a heartless soul, 
then come to me.

When you find someone without any hope, 
then come to me.

When you are unable to find yourself, 
then come to me.
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Emotional Intelligence And Relationships

Emotional Intelligence and Why is it Important?

A long-lasting personal connection is build on emotional intelligence. Being different does not automatically imply being worse. Emotionally intelligent people in a relationship push each other to change in order to reignite their desire for each other and move their relationship forward. Blame has destroyed many relationships, and guilt has prevented millions from experiencing true intimacy. High-EQ or (Emotional Quotient) partners will be aware of and sensitive to each others emotional needs and move forward in their relationship. To know more let’s explore a little.

What is Emotional Intelligence?

The ability to recognize and label your emotions and the power to know how to control and direct how you react to them, are all components of emotional intelligence. It is all about making it easier to understand the sentiments of other people.

There are some people who are not mindful of the emotions that they are encountering. They report feeling blank, numb, or “fine,” but they are at a loss for more specific vocabulary or labels to describe and make sense of their feelings and emotions. Emotional Quotient (EQ) involves being able to name diverse emotions and having the emotional vocabulary to do so.

Emotional intelligence includes both the ability to use one’s feelings effectively in everyday life and the ability to do so in a good way. When you effectively use your emotions, you might, for example, transform your anger into passion, your anxiety into preparation, or your sadness into reflection. It’s about being able to recognize and accept your emotions without letting them consume you or make you feel powerless. Emotional intelligence is the capacity to harness one’s feelings to improve one’s problem-solving abilities, as opposed to letting one’s feelings cloud one’s judgment or get in the way of one’s thinking. Individuals who are intelligent intellectually are not mutually exclusive from those who are emotionally intelligent. They combine the careful thought of their rational mind with the insight of their emotions to come to conclusions that aren’t just based on their feelings or their logic alone.

How Relationships Get Affected by Emotional Quotient ?

Emotional intelligence is the key to maintaining close personal relationships over time, in large part because it heightens our sensitivity to the shifts, both big and tiny, that are continuously taking place in both ourselves and in the people around us. You’ll have the sensitivity that every one of us is always looking for in a significant other if you work on developing your emotional intelligence. Thanks to your increased active awareness and empathic ability, you’ll be able to intuitively pick up on the small changes in the way your relationship works that indicate you need to do something.

Because of empathy, our intrinsic capacity to share emotional experiences, we have the potential to achieve the type of love that we all fantasise about having: profound intimacy, mutual compassion, genuine devotion, and heartfelt caring. This is all possible because of empathy. But in order to reach the pinnacle of romance, we need all of the skills that come with having a high EQ. This means having a strong emotional awareness so that we don’t mistake feelings of infatuation or lust for love that lasts, being willing to feel feelings that could hurt a relationship if they aren’t dealt with, and being aware of what is and isn’t working in our relationships so that we can change what isn’t working.

Establishing Romantic Connections that are Emotionally Intelligent

We don't have to pick the wrong partners, experience numerous failed marriages, or allow our long-term relationships to lose their spark. We don't have to let competing needs and desires stand in the way of a partner who genuinely cares for one another. We don't have to accept dullness or conflict in our romantic relationships.

We have the capacity to experience the type of love we all aspire to: one marked by intense intimacy, reciprocal compassion, and genuine, heartfelt care, just by virtue of our intrinsic capacity for empathy. But in order to reach those relational objectives, we need all of the EQ-boosting abilities:

1. To avoid conflating desire or infatuation with true love, one must be emotionally aware.
2. Acceptance of feelings that, if allowed to develop, could ruin a relationship.
3. Attentive active awareness to inform us of what is and isn't working.

Fortunately, you can start dating before your EQ reaches its pinnacle. In fact, falling in love often serves as a catalyst for heart education. They learn that two high EQ's add up to a romance that never stops growing, never loses its thrill, and always strengthens them both, individually as well as collectively. 

Strive for improvement in your connection

When you overcome your fear of change, you realize different isn't always worse. Change usually improves things. As organisms, relationships must change. Un-nurtured relationships will slide into change you don't want. Change gives you bravery and optimism. Does your partner want something new? Need to revaluate? External influences requiring role changes? You still happy? Without EQ, such questions are too scary to tackle, so many lovers disregard change signs until it's too late.

Consider the difficulties you face as opportunities rather than obstacles

Your courage and optimism help you see dilemmas as possibilities. What's your creative limit? When you don't blame each other for your feelings, you're not controlled by unpleasant emotional memories and don't repeat prior mistakes. High EQ frees you from ruts and resignation so you can solve problems creatively. You might see differences and unavoidable crises as invitations to find each other and grow individually and collectively.

Respect all the feelings you have for each other

We may not always like what we learn about our loved ones, but we must respect their emotions. Love doesn't imply never being angry, disappointed, hurt, or jealous. Important is that you feel your emotions, not how you act on them. Millions of partners have missed out on genuine connection due to shame. Both are unfelt anger, dread, and worry. If you've built EQ, you'll experience emotions and move on with life.

Keep the fun in your romantic relationship

To prevent intellectualising emotions, you need acceptance, and laughter helps. Lovers who can't joke at themselves aren't very accepting. They may not be able to accept its defects and stumbles as well as their own. They're less open to a relationship's positive surprises. Your strong EQ means you can improve your connection but won't be bound by perfectionism.

Why Emotional Maturity is Crucial in Relationships?

In most cases, being in a relationship will cause you to experience a diverse range of feelings and emotions, particularly those of the romantic type. When a spouse does or says something that is counter to what you think, you may have intense emotions that may manifest into a conflict, a lengthy conversation that is gratifying, or even both of these things. Let’s say both partners have reached a certain point in their emotional development. If this is the case, it could help make the relationship stronger and make it easier for people to talk to each other in a healthy way. Both of these things could help solve problems that may arise.

If one partner is more emotionally developed than the other, it may be easier for the pair to find a middle ground during times of contention or disagreement. In order to respect the other person’s ideas and feelings as well as their point of view, both participants in the relationship need to accept responsibility for themselves and the activities they take part in. People who are emotionally mature are also more likely to be able to regulate their impulses and emotions, which allows them to avoid allowing a conflict to spiral out of control. In this way, emotional maturity can be like the glue that holds two people together to make a strong and healthy relationship.

When you’re in a committed partnership, one of the most thoughtful things you can do for your spouse or partner is to accept responsibility for your own life and the choices you make. When both parties in a relationship take responsibility for themselves and work together to take responsibility for their relationship, they are better able to respect and understand one another and give each other mutual respect. The two people in the relationship could grow up together and build a life that meets both of their individual needs and their needs as partners.

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Budget Travelling is Important

Every person who travels is technically a tourist in some sense. There are some who like to see all of the well-known tourist attractions. There are also people that seek out secluded areas that have not yet been explored. People who have a strong desire to experience nature often enjoy going on hikes and camping trips. And then there are those that make it a point to visit all of the destination’s most well-known nightclubs and lively party locations.

When it comes to the ways in which people spend their money while traveling, there are essentially two types: the cheapskate and the spendthrift. Although they each have their own advantages, my personal preference is to travel in a cost-effective manner. The vast majority of budget travellers all over the world opt to explore the world in this manner. You might not be aware of all of the benefits that come with low-cost travel, but they are numerous.

Traveling on a budget is something you should always give some thought to doing, regardless of how much money you have. 
Here are 10 reasons why Budget travelling is important.

You spend your money on experiences rather than things

Spending less allows you to avoid paying for ostentatious accommodations, souvenirs, and activities. You decide to do things that are less expensive or free. As a result, you pay closer attention to the experience and bring back unforgettable memories.

You get a taste of local life

What sense does it make to travel halfway around the world if you don’t get to see the place? Many guests at all-inclusive resorts choose to spend their whole stay inside the resort. They might have just as easily stayed at home! When you travel on a budget, you get to see how locals live. If you want a truly authentic experience, you might choose to stay in one of the residents’ homes. A much better method to understand a culture is to really engage with the locals and take public transportation.

Budgeting enables us to travel farther

This is well recognized; stretch the funds, and the trip will follow suit. What we currently spend a month on, we could spend a week on. We can stretch the money that the typical traveller would spend on a two-week holiday to last us a month or longer. Easily. Not everyone can or wants to travel for an extended period of time. However, if you are considering a lengthy journey, why not push your financial limits as far as they can go so that you can spend more time discovering the grandeur of our planet?

You get aware of the real value of money

Since you’re making the most of your money, you inevitably come to understand its true worth. You develop the habit of shopping around and comparing costs; this is a life skill. This does not, however, imply choosing the least expensive alternative; rather, it means evaluating the value of your purchase and developing your bartering skills. I have a tendency to ask myself, “Well, that’s X number of nights at a hostel. Is that worth it?” when I see prices.

You think outside the box

No matter where you are, when you have limited finances, you occasionally need to get creative with what you eat, where you stay, and what you do for pleasure. Some of our best dishes have resulted from getting inventive with what’s already in the house.

Maintaining a budget is similar to completing a puzzle that keeps your mind active and your creative juices flowing. There are many inventive ways to exchange for the necessities you require, including bartering, gift economies, swaps, and volunteering. Knowing that we can be creative when things are hard is an important life skill.

You connect to your real self

Every person has a variety of desires. But only a small percentage of people genuinely know for sure what they need to be the healthiest, happiest, and most present version of themselves. Traveling is a gift you give to yourself because it allows you to deprive yourself of the comforts of first-world living and really identify the things you actually need to be a whole person. Budget travel accelerates the illumination of this innate wisdom. Everyone has a different answer, but practically everyone I know is a little taken aback by what they learn and is constantly appreciative of the road they undertook to arrive at those answers.

You come across other nomads

When you travel on a budget, you encounter other budget travellers. More frequently than not, there are more of these folks than there are people who travel lavishly. As a result, you unintentionally encounter more people.

You keep your feet on the ground

Budget travel is not the same as vacationing. Exploring and experiencing everything you can is what it’s all about, not taking a break and kicking your feet up. You take care of your own laundry, bedmaking, and towel cleaning; no one waits on you. You come to the realization that you can handle everything on your own and don’t need another person to follow you around.

You feel more liberated

Having everything you require on your shoulders is incredibly liberating. You have less to worry about because you are not constrained by worldly possessions. You become more independent when you have to acquire anything additional that you require. When you first get to a new location, you only reserve one or two nights; if you don’t like it, you simply pack up and leave.

It’s Challenging

Who doesn’t enjoy a good challenge, really? I know I do, and that’s what a challenge traveling on a budget is. To ensure that you can travel for a longer period of time, you must think creatively. You must evaluate which lodging is best, taking into account both the cost and the benefits. If you intend to spend a lot of time in a city, you need to plan activities aside from the primary tourist attractions. You push the limits of what’s possible since there are always fresh challenges to consider.

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Made Of Steel

Marriage is a sacred bond that brings together not just two people but also their families. In specific cases, two completely different cultures. Marriage is about two distinct worlds, each with their history, belief system, and way of life, joining together to form a new world that is all their own.

This new world is what they call “home.” Something that one must work on day in and out and for every single day with sincerity, love, trust, mutual respect, and the determination to stay jointly and not give up no matter what. Marriage does not ‘just’ happen. Indeed, a marriage won’t always be fun and frolickings, yet if you’re planning to live the rest of your lives with someone, you should at least give it a shot.

Celebrating 11 Years With An Open Conversation

Naveeta———–11 Years Ansh. Congrats to us. This is a milestone in our relationship. It’s almost as if we only met the day before. It’s hard to fathom that we’ve already spent so much time together as a team. It feels almost surreal. I mean, it’s magical, it’s evolving, there’s a learning curve for both of us.

How do you feel?
AnshulThe feelings is mutual, it does feel just like we met yesterday. However, when I look at our daughter, I realize it’s been more than a decade now. I believe that our relationship is maturing like the dawning of a new day with each passing year.
NaveetaMy First impression of you was, Charming, straight forward, no -nonsense and  brutally honest. 

Tell me, what was the first thought that popped into your mind when you first met me? 
AnshulWell, I cannot forget our first meeting. When I saw you, my eyes and mind paused there only. Your eyes attracted me the most, because they looked exactly like Mahi Gill, the actress. At that time, the only thought that came into my mind was that she is so beautiful and we would make a wonderful couple.

I have a question for you. What is the one trait in me, you most value me for?
NaveetaYour Unconditional Love. It’s Rare.

What is your best memory of us?
AnshulTouchwood. Our whole journey has been memorable , but If I have to choose, then I will share two of them.The first one , is from the day of our wedding, when you looked nervous on the stage and I hugged you for the first time.The second one is the period of those 20 days that we spent together in the hospital during your pregnancy before Anayta’s(our daughter) birth. Every day and night, we used to discuss our upcoming baby.

What do you value most in our relationship?
NaveetaThe freedom to express and the faith to lift each other. Sometimes I am at my lowest and at times, it’s you, so we act as cheerleaders for each other.

Is there something that you learned as a child that has proven to be most valuable in your life?
AnshulWell, during my childhood, my mom taught me that nothing is impossible and I can achieve great heights with my self-belief and confidence. And I implemented this teaching of hers, throughout my life, one of the incidents I would like to share is,  In 11th standard I took Medical with Math. Though I was not able to perform as per the expectations in the first term, I worked hard and completed my studies with flying colours and made my career as a biomedical professional.

No more nerdy talks. Tell me how do you define love?
NaveetaLove has no set definition; it keeps on changing as you evolve. At the beginning of a relationship, saying I love every day is love, pampering each other with surprises and going out is fun, but with time it takes on a different shape. It’s not that we don’t surprise each other, or that we don’t say “I love you” anymore we do, but the process has changed. In a nutshell, I would say “pyar ka safar, tere naam se, mere naam tak”. (From your name to mine, love is a journey.)

Ansh, tell me how do you know when I am upset?
AnshulWell, I understand with the tone of your voice, and through your eyes. 

What is the one word that best describes our relationship? And why?
NaveetaThe Newness in our relationship, as I mentioned earlier, it’s been 11 years still we feel as if “we happened just yesterday”. We have done a lot of exploring already and I believe there is still more to explore and do. 

Name a movie that reflects our relationship?
AnshulGalwakdi , a Punjabi movie featuring Taesem Jassar and Wamiqa Gabbi.
Naveeta———–If you had to describe me in three words what would they be? 
AnshulAns: Well, I can’t put into words how much I love you. Because you complete me, I am unable to think of anything in my life without taking you into account. However, if I had to describe you in just three words, they would be “Risk Taker,” “Beautiful,” and “Dream Catcher.”

If you had to describe me in three words what would they be?
NaveetaThree words… too less to describe you, hmm, I would say
Caring, Honest, and Full of Love.


What is your favorite picture of us?
Naveeta———–What do you see us doing 10 years from now?
AnshulWell, you know me Nanu. I don’t plan for too long. Personally, I want to live each and every moment of my life with my family whether it’s today, tomorrow or after ten Years. Professionally, I want to see you achieving all your dreams and keep enjoying each year of lives together
Naveeta3 wishes…you go first.
AnshulYou come here with me in Canada as soon as possible.
Seeing you working in Canadian Radio as a Radio Jockey, because you have the most beautiful voice.
Third, let’s keep it a secret.

What’s yours?
NaveetaI want to be with you soon, like super soon.
A Trip to Russia
Our Own Restaurant

My three wishes.
AnshulCannot wait to have you near me. Happy Anniversary and hoping for many more wonderful years ahead.
NaveetaHappy Anniversary Ansh…..
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H.R. And Tech Invasion

Invasion of Technology in Managing Human Resource Function

Businesses all across the world have been impacted by the rapid advancement of technology. The role has undergone significant change since millennials already make up more than half of the workforce and are expected to increase to more than 75 percent by the year 2025*. It doesn’t matter whether it’s learning and development, talent acquisition, or performance management; technology solutions are taking over HR and making their presence felt right from enterprise-level products to customized solutions, from AI-enabled workplaces to analytics that is suited for every challenge.

In this digitally-driven and technology-enabled world, future HR executives will need to play two essential responsibilities, which are as follows:

1. To make educated selections concerning the technological items that could be appropriate for their company.
2. To make certain that the digital experience improves the overall experience of the employees as well as their performance without compromising the amount of work that can be accomplished.

Impact of Technology on HR Practices

Technology alters how human resources departments communicate with employees, hire new ones, keep old ones, and retire them. When it is implemented effectively, technology may make HR operations more efficient. Effective human resource management methods increase productivity while lowering risk.

Technology makes it possible for HR services to compile and analyze employee data to provide a comprehensive picture of performance.

As a function, human resources (HR) is always changing, and the progression of technology has had an influence on HR just as it has on every other function. The burden that is placed on HR experts will, to a large degree, be relieved as a result of the development of more recent technology.

The six major HR trends that are going to change
the H.R. function and its operations.

1. Leverage AI technology to improve talent acquisition and HR operations
AI is helping talent acquisition professionals save time and effort by lowering the amount of labor that is routine, repetitive, and administrative. Artificial intelligence helps enhance the process of managing massive volumes of organizational data by turning that data into useful outputs, which helps increase the productivity of the business. Identifying data patterns is one of the many functions that machine learning, a crucial cog in the wheel of technology, does. This helps with vital decision-making.
2. Use predictive analysis to plan for future needs
Predictive analysis is a method that uses data from the past to make predictions. Modern HR departments use analytics not only to improve the process of hiring new employees and keeping the ones they already have but also to improve efficiency and performance, which leads to more engaged employees.
3. Analytics drives diversity and inclusion
AI and ML blend beautifully today to identify potential and high-performing employees through a vast pool of job applicants emphasizing skills and experience, thereby removing unconscious biases in terms of gender, race, ethnicity, and education that are used to creep in. ML and ML blend beautifully today to identify potential and high-performing employees through a vast pool of job applicants emphasizing skills and experience. The final product is a more diverse workforce overall.
4. Compliance allows for greater levels of productivity in the past
HR departments frequently struggled to both preserve and retrieve data. A single omission can have a devastating effect on the operations of a firm. It just takes a few clicks to gather, retrieve, and show data using a cloud-based HRMS, which saves a significant amount of time and effort that would otherwise be spent on work that is not productive.
5. Analytics is the driving force behind enhanced performance management
Cloud-based analytics and data presentation. Today's human resources information systems make it much simpler for managers to track and manage the performance of their teams. When personal biases are taken out of the evaluation process, it becomes objective and driven by results.
6. Improved effects of learning and development initiatives
One-size-fits-all Training modules are no longer effective. Initiatives for talent engagement and development have been much more effective nowadays because of technology like AR and VR. One of the main causes of workers' delaying training is a lack of interest. AR and VR have made learning more interesting and helped people remember what they have learned.

To summarize, the use of technology has significantly altered the responsibilities of professionals working in the field of human resources management. More and more human resources management tasks are being done electronically inside the human resources department. This is done to improve the administrative efficiency and responsiveness of human resources management to their internal clients, workers, and managers. Technological advancement allows organizations to improve their internal processes, core competencies, and organizational structure.

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Long-Distance Relationship And How To Survive

Who you fall in love with is absolutely out of your control. It simply happens. In the same way, you can not just flip a switch and stop feeling these things, even if you get the perfect job on the other side of the world.

Nobody enters a relationship anticipating it to be a distant one. But if you find yourself in such a situation, you should have to get the most out of a fundamentally miserable or bleak circumstance in order to maintain the connection.

The objective of every fulfilling relationship is to have a strong “kinship.” However, long-distance partnerships are exceptionally difficult since you must almost entirely rely on communication to keep your bond strong. And that may require more work than an ordinary relationship. Couples who are in long-distance relationships need to know that it will take more work to keep in touch if they want to avoid even small cracks in their relationship.

A long-distance relationship is risky. Because when you are in love with someone and when you cannot sense their physical presence, you are most vulnerable. Sometimes you want to give up, and then the next moment you want to give it another chance.

No one can guarantee it will be simple; the additional distance prevents many things from being doable. You could experience moments of loneliness and sadness as well as a confusing situation.

However, the extra distance also enhances the sweetness of the little things. Holding hands, sharing a meal, experiencing each other’s touch, going on a stroll together, and even smelling each other’s hair—these seemingly insignificant desires might suddenly mean a lot more in a long-distance relationship.

Though difficult, long-distance relationships can come with a few unexpected benefits.
And When it comes to surviving the distance, here’s what you can do.

1.Limit your conversation

Being extremely “attached” and obsessive is not a smart option. The connection doesn’t actually need to be maintained through constant communication between you two. Many couples believe that they need to do more to make up for the distance. That is untrue. And it might further worsen the situation. You will soon get weary of “love.”

2.Consider it a chance

Consider it a learning experience for you both. You have the chance to demonstrate your affection for one another at this time. You shouldn’t worry that your long-distance relationship is tearing you apart. Instead, you should trust that this will make your relationship stronger.

3.Consistently and creatively communicate

Every day, they say “good morning” and “good night” to one another. Additionally, strive to keep your lover informed of your life’s events, no matter how unimportant some of them may appear.

Send each other occasional images, audio samples, and brief movies to boost the pace. By making this type of effort, you give the other person the impression that they are loved and cared for.

4.Dirty talks are a saving grace

Without a doubt, one of the most significant factors in relationships is sexual tension. Sexual desire may be compared to the glue that prevents a couple from drifting apart. In addition to being biological, sexual urges can also be emotional.

Send each other flirtatious texts with sexual innuendos and suggestive language to keep the fires blazing.

5.The key lies in similar things

Give each other recommendations for books, TV series, movies, music, and other media. You have more topics to discuss when you read, watch, and listen to the same things.

It’s wonderful to share certain experiences even if you don’t live together.

6.Keep your autonomy

If your partner lives far away, you may feel that a piece of yourself is missing, but try to carry on with your regular habits. Keep in mind that you are still an individual, not merely a member of a group. Additionally, being active frequently reduces loneliness.

You might want to chat to your lover more often if you don’t see them often. However, if they can’t constantly communicate with you, becoming dependent on your phone or computer might cause melancholy or even hatred. You’ll miss out on time with other family members as well.

Spending some time alone or with friends and family is still advisable, even if your spouse does have time to chat nonstop throughout the day.

7.Be truthful to one another

Discuss any sentiments of dread, insecurity, resentment, indifference, etc. If you try to keep a secret from your partner, it will eventually consume you from the inside out. Avoid attempting to handle everything on your own. Be direct and truthful with one another. Allow your spouse to assist you and provide the necessary support. When an issue first arises, it is preferable to address it than to wait until it is too late to do so.

8.Have a goal in mind

In reality, a couple cannot maintain a distant relationship indefinitely. We all have to settle down eventually.

So, let’s come up with a strategy together. Set up a schedule, write down the expected times for separation and convergence, and show what the end result will be.

You two need to be on the same page and have the same objectives. You are both driven to work together in the same direction toward a future that involves one another, even though you do not share the same place or time zone.

9.Remain optimistic

To maintain a long-distance relationship, you must consistently give it uplifting energy. Even though waiting can be hard and lonely, you should always keep in mind that the rewards will be as sweet as paradise.

10.Be Thankful 

Being appreciative is a great way to maintain a optimistic attitude. Be grateful that you have someone to love and that person loves you back. Be grateful for the simple things, such as the handmade letter that recently made it safely to your mailbox. Be grateful for one another’s well-being and security.

It’s true that Long-distance relationships are accompanied by a lot of insecurity, anxiety, sadness, and other strong feelings. Nevertheless, it also gives faith, trust, camaraderie, patience, hope for a new beginning, and, of course, love.

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I Am Rare

I am rare, 
I am unique.
I am tough,  
I am hard to believe.

I am strong, 
I am fragile.
I am filled, 
I am thriving.

I am forced, 
I am brave.

I am known, 
I am strange.
I am near, 
I am far.

I am the sun, 
I am dark.
I am the flower; 
I am the stone.

I am the queen; 
I am the throne.
 Yes, I am the hope, 
to fight all over again.
Naveeta wrote this poem with two goals in mind: one, to emphasise the strength of those who suffer from rare diseases such as haemophilia, Sickle Cell Disease, Muscular Dystrophy, Multiple Sclerosis, and so on, and two, to demonstrate how unique they are despite having these conditions.
The second goal is to demonstrate women's strength, their will power and their grid.
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15 Tips For Traveling Solo

Going on a vacation by yourself is one of the best ways to learn more about your life, more about yourself, your strengths, weaknesses, and aid in making better choices. Learning how to travel on your own is one of the best ways to have a life-changing and eye-opening experience, exposure to a world outside of our own. So if you want to be sure you get the most out of it, you need to get started.

If you are hoping to make a change, here are a few tips for solo travellers.

1. FIRST AND FOREMOST, PUT YOUR SAFETY FIRST.
Safety is a major issue for those who are contemplating a solo vacation. Although it pays to be cautious, this should not prevent you from embarking on your next adventure. Choosing the proper destination might make all the difference since certain locations are more suitable for solitary travel than others. Always verify in advance with the CDC and the country's embassy online to confirm that their COVID-19 testing and vaccination policies are current. With the unpredictability of COVID-19, travel insurance is always a good idea, as is informing loved ones of your whereabouts.
2. KNOW YOUR DESTINATION
You need to learn more about the location that you intend to visit as part of the process of making plans for your trip. This entails being familiar with every nook and crevice of the neighbourhood. If you want to avoid being taken advantage of by the people who live there, it is in your best interest to learn as much as possible about the environment, including the people who live there, the food they eat, the means of transportation, the prices for traveling to various locations from where you are staying, and much more. 
3. LEARN THE LANGUAGE
It may sound obvious, but taking the time to learn a few phrases in the local language may make a significant difference in how you experience a country, especially if you are traveling alone and cannot rely on others for translations.
4. FIND SHARED HOUSING
Consider staying in a place that requires more than one person to occupy it because a hotel room for one person may be pricey and, let's be honest, a little lonely at times. Meeting new people is especially easy when you stay in shared accommodations like hostels or Airbnbs.
5. PROCEED INDEPENDENTLY
Because everyone is unique, selecting a vacation that caters to your specific personality and areas of interest will be the most important factor in determining how much fun you have when you travel by yourself. To help you get started on your journey all by yourself, the map above highlights some of the top cities for independent travel.
6. ASSIMILATE
The best way to avoid attracting the notice of purveyors and fraudsters is to blend in. It's a bonus to be able to blend in and appear to be a local. If you don't do your homework about the region, its surroundings, and the types of attire worn by locals, you'll come off as a tourist. It's not that difficult, and you'll be able to do it.
7. CHALLENGE YOURSELF
When traveling by alone, you run the risk of feeling lonely and bored at times, but if you can find ways to keep yourself interested and intrigued, you may be able to view a city in a way that you haven't seen before.
8. SELF-CONFIDENCE
Traveling on one's self can be difficult at times, but the advantages make the effort worthwhile. After venturing out on their own for an extended period, many people find that they experience increased levels of confidence and contentment, in addition to gaining some fresh perspectives on life.
9. SLOW YOUR PACE 
Traveling by oneself entails the most independence possible Accept it and move through life at your own pace while doing so. You might get the urge to go sightseeing one day, but on another, you might want to take things at a more relaxed pace. The satisfaction comes from determining your course of action. When you go to a museum with friends, one of the drawbacks is that you have to try to keep up with their pace as you move around the galleries.
10. DISAPPEAR WITH THE FLOW
When traveling by oneself, it is especially tempting to spend too much time thinking about and planning various parts of the trip. The ability to just go with the flow and see where the day or night takes you can, at times, result in some of the most interesting and entertaining stories.
11. RESEARCH BEFORE TRAVEL
There are a variety of methods available for conducting research before an upcoming vacation, and thanks to the proliferation of social media, it is now simpler than ever to query locals for recommendations regarding the top attractions.
12. TRUST YOURSELF
A delicate balance is required to successfully put oneself out there, meet new people, and safely explore a place while traveling alone. In the majority of scenarios, putting your faith in yourself and using common sense along with a modicum of prior planning ought to be sufficient.
13. OWN A CAMERA 
The freedom of traveling on one's own is a photographer's dream come true. Even in the absence of a predetermined itinerary or timetable, it is possible to pass a whole day taking photographs of lively side alleys and breath-taking scenery. When it comes to capturing a moment with only you, it's not always necessary to resort to taking a self-portrait using a smartphone camera.
14. LIBERATE YOURSELF 
When you travel by yourself, you have the freedom to be whoever you want to be. Plunge headfirst into the experience, have faith in who you are and seize the opportunity to express every facet of your personality.
15. PLAN B
There's nothing quite like always being well-prepared! Always have a backup plan in place. It will simply inspire you to have more fun and not be as concerned about your safety as you might be on a trip. Be flexible with your trip plans, because things don't always go as planned. Enjoy yourself while you're at it. 

What are you waiting for? Go make plans. Get going. Go on. Get started.

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Your Best Friend at Work

Human Resource refers to the folks who recruit you, give you mountains of paperwork to fill out, and offer you a job and who one day may dismiss you. For many reasons, including if you are underperforming, and or if the company wants to restructure or make a change. So, it’s probable for many to believe bypassing Human Resource or HR is the safest way to achieve success!!! Just keep off their grid and everything will be OK. However, have you ever thought, your Human Resource Department or HR is more than just the policies, process, procedures, and systematising arms of management that you may have previously thought of it to be. Let’s dive in to the ocean to know how HR can be your best buddy at the workplace. 

1. Crafting a Career Plan

You may have heard that human resources are primarily concerned with the success of the firm and not the careers of individual workers. True, but the firm will fail if it does not have competent workers, and good employees desire to further their careers. Frequently, your HR manager may assist you sketch out the road to your final objective. If you are targeting a higher position, they can assist you in identifying your weaknesses and strengths, as well as guiding you along the appropriate career options. In addition, when the senior leadership team says, “We need someone to perform X role,” your name will be more likely to be included if you have shown interest to HR.

2. Leaking information

Some large corporations offer anonymous tip lines for any breaches seen, while others have a designated contact person. However, you may also go in and speak with HR about this. You may report any safety or security infractions to your company’s HR department. They will initiate an inquiry.

3. Support You in Navigating the Legal System

HR managers shouldn’t be confused with employment law lawyers, but they should have a fundamental understanding of employment law. If a colleague reports that her supervisor is behaving inapproporiately, you may seek guidance from HR and file a harassment claim. If an employee threatens to sue you, you must report it promptly, even if you believe they are just venting. Don’t let legal troubles grow. HR has the resources necessary to assist you and knows when to consult with lawyers.

4. Continuing Education for Career Growth

Is there a tuition reimbursement program at your place of business? If you don’t know the answer to that query, go to Human Resources and inquire. Many firms and organizations provide this benefit, particularly if the degree or certification you’re pursuing will directly benefit the company.

 If you’re an analyst, asking your employer to pay for your master’s degree in art history is unlikely, but if you’re looking for tuition aid for CPA review courses, there’s a strong chance your boss will help. Ask about certification programs or even massive online open courses that may help you bridge knowledge gaps if you don’t need a new degree but want to enhance your abilities.

5. Health Challenges

Do you or a family member suffer from health issues? Are you or your spouse pregnant? Proceed to HR. If you begin missing work due to headache without informing HR, you may be terminated for breaking attendance standards. However, if you report to HR, you may file papers and seek legal protection.

Your situation may be covered under the country’s medical law. You must seek assistance. Do not presume that your boss would understand that your absences qualify you for protection. Remember that these regulations also protect your family members, such as if you need time off to care for a very sick parent or relative.

6. Personal Issues

Don’t expect free treatment or private counsel from HR managers since they aren’t therapists, priests, or attorneys. However, if confidentiality is vital to you, you should request it. If they can’t, your HR manager should state, “I can’t keep this private.” If you allege that your employer is sexually harassing you, for example, the law requires your HR manager to look into it. But, if you’re suffering in your marriage or having issue with your home loan, your HR may help lead you toward an employee support program.

7. CV Enhancement

This may seem contradictory: after all, your HR department doesn’t want you to leave, and leaving is the only reason you’d need to update your CV, right? Wrong. Your CV is useful whether you’re seeking for membership in a professional group, searching for an internal promotion, or may be trying to get into graduate school.

Additionally, if you are laid off, your old HR department may be able to assist you with your resume.

8. Updating an Overall Rating

Was your last performance assessment accurate? The majority of the time, HR will side with your manager, given that your manager monitors your day-to-day work while HR oversees several workers. However, if you believe there was an error in your rating, you should contact HR.

Your HR manager will analyse your evaluation and compare it to those of your colleagues and previous evaluations. If the HR representative believes you have a point, they will discuss it with your supervisor.

9. Handling Your Supervisor

There are certain employees who are better suited to certain managers than others. Your company’s human resources department can assist you in dealing with a boss who does not share your management style or who tends to micromanage employees.

10. The Final Word

HR will always have documentation for you to complete, but keep in mind that they exist to assist the firm prosper. This indicates that HR is aware of the necessity for individual employee success. Check with them to see if they can assist you in advancing your career.

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Indian Wedding Trends 2022

At the end of 2021, life returned to normality, with weddings and other major events regaining their old grandeur of colourful extravagance, but with a more careful approach. Couples and their families are striving to make weddings even more meaningful than ever before as a result of the pandemic.

If you’re planning a wedding in 2022, here’s the dirt on the trendiest wedding trends to help you arrange the ideal event.

Pay Attention to The Smallest Things

Couples and families are choosing smaller, more private celebrations where they may spend more money on a higher-quality event. The event will be more unforgettable for you and your loved ones if you pay attention to the smallest of details by personalizing and customizing each element. The recent wedding of Bollywood celebrities Ranbeer and Alia is the ideal illustration of an intimate ceremony.

Wedding in The Sunlight

Nighttime weddings have become the things of the past. Take a hint from superstars such as Katrina Kaif and Rajkumar Rao, among others, and organize a wedding during the day. Daytime weddings are gaining popularity due to their photo-worthy golden hour moments, energizing atmosphere, and design options.

Limited Guest List

We are not yet prepared to return to the era of extravagant weddings with guest lists in the hundreds. Even if guest limitations have been relaxed in the majority of locations, couples and families continue to seek the convenience and stress-free pleasure of smaller gatherings with just their closest loved ones. Not only can exclusive, handpicked guest lists make events seem more personal and memorable, but they also free up funds for the venue, attire, entertainment, or whatever else you wish.

Virtual is the Key

Virtual save-the-dates are here to stay since they provide a great deal of variety in terms of design and originality, as well as the ease of contacting visitors across the world.

Wedding Entertainment is Reinvented

Entertainment is rapidly becoming an integral aspect of festivities, and it is no longer restricted to music and dance acts alone. After two tumultuous years, couples want to express their delight and excitement with their loved ones, let free, and have fun at all of their festivities, not just the Sangeet night. Couples are embracing unique concept photobooths, disco nights, rain dance, stand-up comedy, live performers immersed in the audience, circus performances, magic shows, dance floors that flow from the stage to the beach, and so much more to bring a dose of excitement and uniqueness to every event.

Time to Pack your Bags

The easing of travel restrictions in most countries has been great news for people all over the world, but especially for couples, as they are now able to plan their dream celebration or honeymoon at the locations of their choosing. This comes after months of people holding their weddings and honeymoons at their homes and staying at home. Do bear in mind the travel rules and health warnings of the areas you visit and do not forget to take any necessary health measures to take part in the celebrations in a risk-free manner.

Outdoor Themes

Everyone appreciates the attractiveness of nature, trees, and green surroundings. Therefore, why not celebrate them at weddings? This year would be the year for marriages in the wilderness. Cooling breezes, the warmth of the sun, and the invigorating atmosphere of green plants, and coloured flowers. What a marvel to see! Destination weddings will generate genuinely remarkable memories for the couple and their loved ones by combining the customary wedding experience with the novelty and allure of an exotic locale.

Every Food has Story to Tell

The food is the highlight of every Indian wedding how grand or small it is. The menu is one of the most significant and memorable aspects of a wedding reception, and an increasing number of couples are choosing odd foods and unique selections. Dishes or themes have unique meaning to your love story, such as your first date to the first kiss for that matter. 

Old Vintage Charm in Engagement Rings 

Vintage-inspired engagement rings are popular due to their old-world allure, subtle romanticism, and of course their bold appearance. Classic diamond cuts, art deco influence, elegant filigree, and colourful stones are now popular. Katrina Kaif’s sapphire and diamond ring from Tiffany is reminiscent of Princess Diana’s classic ring from the 1980s.

Sari Not Sorry

Lehengas have long been a popular choice for brides, owing to Indian celebrity weddings when fans anxiously awaited the bride to unveil her lehenga. However, most notable females in the Indian film industry have lately chosen the sari for the most important day of their lives, ranging from Dia Mirza to Yami Gautam, Partlekha to Mouni Roy, or the nation’s heartbeat, Alia Bhatt. Saris are making a big splash on the wedding scene.

The No-Makeup, Makeup look

Bold, bright cosmetic features will take a back seat in 2022, as predicted at the start of 2021. This is also true in terms of wedding makeup. Alia Bhatt’s bridal style is the most recent example of the no makeup, makeup look. A great foundation, shimmering eyelids, mascara, and peachy nude lipstick are all that are required to make a woman seem elegant and lovely on her wedding day.

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