Most have lost their inner wild child versions in the whole routine and life’s patterns. Instead, we have entered a monotonous existence of work-home and back to work. The in-between time is spent sleeping or catching up with movies/soaps on our couch. Every year, whenever we regroup with friends, we curse our routines and work and, in the end, make resolutions to go wild. But does that happen? The going wild part? Most of us end up continuing our career graphs or fulfilling family duties. We forget about those resolutions. I confess I did forget these resolutions, too – the New Year resolutions. 

One of my resolutions about five years ago was to bring back my crazy, wild side. I was determined to do it, and this time, I did! I started living by my instincts and following my gut feelings. On a lighter note, having talked about my wild side, I know how you would envision me – hair standing, wild clothes, crazed eyes, and perhaps, whacking people (well, not so violent!) or holding a rope/lasso in hand, etc. But my definition of wild is doing what I want to do at that moment, and when I feel and want to do, going by my gut instincts, and not following any norms. It could differ for all of you.

Everyone who knows me closely knows about another wild, intense side of me – the opinionated and strong-willed part. They know I could go to any limit and extent to protect my loved ones and stand up for their right. My family even jokes that I was born wild. I had been stubborn from the beginning and argued wildly and endlessly like a lawyer as a child, so much so that my mom thought I would become one someday. Of course, I chose another route – the Word Route- to vent my wildness!

I was passionate about my wild side till I was in my 30s. Then suddenly, my domestic side surfaced, and for some reason, I became content to be in my comfort zone. I stopped being adventurous, a risk-taker, and spontaneous. I followed “rules,” became idealistic, and became a “planned” risk taker. Call it a phase or a sudden dip in confidence levels, and I thought, “This is it.” I guess many of us have these phases in life. These phases come as we cross some milestones in life. But it is not necessary to remain in this phase for too long. The circle of energy flows through all of us. So, no phase is constant and must not be too.

Similarly, if you have been stagnant, you will become dynamic someday. Sometimes stagnancy may symbolize you need a break or a pause to reflect on life. But it should not be a permanent break. Consider it temporary and ensure you break out of the phase too. You need to be conscious of your breaks.

You can do it anytime if you want to reclaim your wild side. Just ensure you do it because you want to and not for anyone else. There may be several reels on social media showing how you can claim your wild side, too, where influencers inspire. But go by your gut feelings!

So, what is the image you get when you imagine yourself being wild? Close your eyes and think. Each of us has a particular perception of how we want to be. Focus on that. Embracing the wild side can be a journey of self-discovery, a connection with nature, and celebrating the untamed spirit within us. “wild” often evokes images of untouched nature, freedom, and unpredictability. It could be going close to heart, going through an energy, food, and technology detox. So, are you any of these or a combination of these?

Sing aloud, offkey.

This is my way of expressing my wild. Singing is my passion, and sometimes I go offkey and have fun seeing reactions around me. Whoever accompanies me on a drive will witness me singing aloud to the loud music in the car. My partner-in-crime is my son, who also does the same.

Dance like crazy

Rains, romantic music, party music – any piece can make me dance. Even a visual of someone else dancing can make me get up and break into a dance! I need an excuse to move anywhere – parties, streets, or alone at home. Attend dance classes or workshops that encourage free expression and movement. Dancing can be a powerful way to unleash your wild energy and let go of inhibitions.

Dress as you like

At home or elsewhere, I like to try contrast-colored outfits. I do not believe in matching accessories and outfits at all! Trust me, and it’s fun to play dress-up! I am a sucker for selfies too.

Tastebuds goin’ wild

Trying new foods that stimulate my tastebuds and moods is another wild side of me. I am a moody cook, so I try crazy combinations when I crave something different. I am game for trying out fancy dishes or any new dishes recommended on social media/by friends. The pandemic was a time I discovered a lot of cuisine and quenchers that I had never heard of – thanks to social media.

Tread unknown paths

Nothing better than an unknown road. Cycling is one of my favourite outdoor activities, and I love exploring different routes. Thanks to Maps, I plug in my earphones and cycle away. It is exciting to go off-grid. Of course, I do look after my safety too. But yes, it gives me a thrill to do it. The same goes with driving too. I love driving off main roads and exploring in lanes. Choose activities that allow you to connect with nature and experience the untamed beauty of the wilderness.

Wilderness Retreats 

Join a wild retreat or a nature-based workshop focusing on self-discovery and personal growth. These retreats often involve mindfulness practices, guided hikes, and activities designed to help you reconnect with yourself and the natural world. Take slow walks, meditate outdoors, or sit silently, observing the natural world around you. Moonlit walks also can be a magical experience, connecting you with the cycles of nature. 

Solo Travel 

Pack your bags and go to a new destination without overthinking or over-planning. Allow yourself to immerse in the experience, meet new people, and embrace unexpected adventures. 

Creativity at its wildest best

Engage in artistic activities like painting, drawing, writing, or photography. Expressing your creativity can be a powerful way to tap into your wild side and explore your inner world. I love doodling and Mandala. You can choose yours too.

Wild Workouts

Try fitness activities that take you out of your comfort zone, such as outdoor yoga, trail running, or obstacle course training. Pushing your physical limits can help you feel more empowered and connected with your body.

Community Drum Circles

Drums, as percussion instruments, are quite meditative and relaxing. Join a drum circle in your community or form one with friends. Drumming can help you tap into your wild and instinctual nature.

Breaking cycles and patterns

All of us are conditioned to walk a particular path, do things in a specific manner, and lead our lives the way we were taught as children by adults. Some cycles are now redundant and need to be discarded. As part of the wild, we need to break these codes and form new ones that are more flexible. This is something I have been doing for years. 

Fire Ceremonies

Participate in fire ceremonies, which have been used for centuries to release negative emotions, connect with the elements, and embrace transformation.

Remember, reclaiming your wild self is a personal journey. Choose activities that echo with you and align with your interests and passions. Be open to new experiences and embrace the untamed aspects of your being.

Signing off with a quote by Rumi, “let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you love. It will not lead you astray.” 

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